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January 9, 2006
Kids First Parent Association of Canada
604-291-0088
Youth violence, particularly the explosion of gun violence in Toronto, is an
important issue in the election campaign. In response, politicians are promising
prison, police, and programs. These are supposed to address "root causes." But
what really are the root causes of increasing rates of youth violence?
Another top election issue is daycare. A national program has long been pushed
with promises that it will reduce youth crime and drug abuse and improve social
cohesion and inclusion.
Is there any basis for such promises? Or is there a negative connection between
daycare and youth violence? Research strongly suggests that there is.
Studies have repeatedly demonstrated that children in daycare have significantly
higher levels of aggression and non-compliance at school entry. Kids in long
hours in institutional daycare centresthe child care type
most heavily supported by governmentare the most affected, with observed
aggression levels up to 19 per cent above norms. Imagine the outcry if a
prescription drug caused this.
The recent, sole study of outcomes of the Quebec daycare system by Michael Baker
(University of Toronto), Jonathan Gruber (MIT) and Kevin Milligan (University of
British Columbia) found "striking evidence that children are worse off in a
variety of behavioral and health dimensions, ranging from aggression to
motor-social skills to illness. Our analysis also suggests that the new
childcare program led to more hostile, less consistent parenting, worse
parental health, and lower-quality parental relationships....The consistency of
the results suggests that more access to childcare is bad for these children."
The US National Institute for Child Health and Human Development studying
thousands of children from birth has repeatedly come to the same conclusion. A
huge Stanford and Berkeley study found that all kindergarten children who had
attended preschool or daycare at least 15 hours a week displayed more negative
social behaviors than their peers. A Partnership for Children researcher
stated, "we're talking about childrena 3-year-old in one instancewho will
take a fork and stab another child in the forehead."
Does daycare cause youth violence? Do high levels of aggressive and
non-compliant behaviour at age 5 mean higher levels of violent behaviour at age
12, 15, 20? Do we really want to wait for the studies to statistically prove the
results?
Rather than launch a social experiment with our children as laboratory mice, a
far more sound strategy would be to increase support for those practices that
are proven to be effective, such as encouraging greater parent-child
connectedness. This requires time together. As Ken Dryden himself once said,
"quality time is a crock."
The $25 million US National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health involving
over 90,000 adolescents examined risk behaviours including violence and
involvement with guns and drugs. It found that, "across all the health
outcomes examined, the results point to the importance of family and the home
environment for protecting children from harm. What emerges most consistently
is the teenager's feeling of connectedness with parents and family." This
held true despite poverty, single parent status, race, and class.
Seventy-five percent of men in prison have absent fathers.
Parents matter. Love matters.
As it is, these findings are heavily suppressed. Why? Because "attachment" to
the Labour Force is deemed to be more important than parent-child attachment.
The elitecorporations, unions and their approved feministscreate policy
that penalizes parents, especially mothers, for making their children their
first priority. They want all parents inor seekingfull-time jobs or
"training", with the children in daycare 10 hours a day from birth to age 12.
Government regulation is supposed to assure us that "the kids are alright" so
we can concentrate on the McJob, free from anxiety about our young.
Preferentially funding daycare is an explicit part of policy imported from the
OECD. Policies which provided welfare and other direct financial support to
families are dubbed "maternalist" and "familialist," to be dumped in favour of
the "reconciliation of family and work," writes (approvingly) daycare lobby
researcher, Carleton sociology professor, Dr Rianne Mahon, in her paper "The
OECD and the Reconciliation Agenda: Competing Blueprints." These ideologues do
not seem to understand that family care IS work, and their policies reflect
their willful ignorance.
Daycare lobbyists claim that daycare provides better "nurturing high quality
care" and will therefore improve socialization and reduce crime and related
costs by up to $7 for every $1 "invested" in daycare. But the evidence
contradicts their claims.
Developmental psychologist Dr Gordon Neufeld and co-author Dr Gabor Mate make
clear in their landmark book, "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Matter", where
children derive their social skillsfrom the adults they are attached to,
especially parents. Kids do not civilize other kids. In the absence of
attachment to parents, peers fill the void. PEER ATTACHMENT IS THE ROOT CAUSE
OF VIOLENT YOUTH GANGS.
Social policy that reduces the time babies and children spend with their parents
is a recipe for the "Lord of the Flies". In the long run, only parents, not the
police or prisons, can reverse the growing tragedy of alienated and violent
children. The state must recognize this and support parents, not replace or
insult us.
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